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  • Do not forget Michael Brown
  • Do not forget how the media dehumanized him and tried to justify his murder
  • Do not forget how peaceful protests were painted as savage riots
  • Do not forget police armed with military grade weapons terrorized and arrested black civilians
  • Do not forget Darren Wilson being awarded over $200,000 in fundraiser donations for murdering an unarmed black child
  • Do not forget that this system was not built to defend us, but to control us
  • Do not forget Ferguson 
Posted 4 hours ago71,272 notesVIA/SOURCEFiled Under: #if you have time to attack me for a hashtag #care about ferguson instead
Anonymous ASKED: I've just got to say this and I mean no disrespect, but this is how I view the tw for thin bodies. I don't think you have the right to make the call on who should or shouldn't love their bodies. Yes, being skinny is glorified in the media, but a very specific type of skinny that not every thin person fits. Not everyone can be the same size and there are countless triggers out there that people have to deal with without a hashtag that no one should feel personally responsible for.

When have I said thin people didn’t have the right to love themselves? Oh right, never, because being anti body snark / pro body positivity doesn’t mean you can’t discuss privileges and forms of oppressions linked to size.

On the other hand, you’re giving yourself the right to decide wether people deserve mental safety or not. I feel responsible for my followers’ health. You’ve got a problem with this? Go ahead and unfollow, I couldn’t care any less. I shouldn’t feel personally responsible for you getting uncomfortable over a hashtag.

Posted 12 hours ago14 notesFiled Under: #let's chill it was just your usual anti tw anon #now let me sleep please

On fatphobia, thin privilege, and “eat a sandwich!” | Raising My Boychick 

Everyone read this, I’m going to sleep.

Posted 13 hours ago14 notes
massachusettshasmysoul ASKED: hi!!! love your blog, immediate follow hehe! :) i wanted to ask you, since you seem to know these things, can you recommend any websites that have a collection of high waisted panties? i can't seem to find them anywhere! :(

Hi! Thank you!

Quite a lot actually! You might want to start with websites with a big selection of brands, so I’d try Asos (Don’t forget to look at the promotions), Figleaves, Hepburn & Leigh, Modcloth, My Retro Closet and Journelle (US only) first.

As for brands, here are the ones on  top of my mind but there are many many others : Huit, Gossard, Kiss Me Deadly, Dita Von Teese, Mimi Holliday, Ohhh Lulu, Playful Promises, Marks & Spencer, Topshop, Harlow & Fox, Panache, Blush, Fleur of England, 

Hope this helps!

Posted 13 hours ago5 notes
Anonymous ASKED: No offense but I have been underweight all my life and all this thin body being a trigger actually makes me feel bad. It makes me feel that /I/ need to be fat to be acceptable around here.

No one ever said that thin bodies were not acceptable. I’m just tagging them for people with EDs because it’s probably the only place where they can avoid them. I don’t know how it is in other countries, but here you just have to open a magazine or the TV and all you see is thin women. This society makes us feel like we need to be thin to be acceptable, respectable, loved, healthy, successful, and so on. So no offense but this is not about you.

Posted 13 hours ago24 notesFiled Under: #you sound a bit like men who come to feminist blogs to shout 'not all men' #or white people complaining about poc excluding them from them safe places #see what I mean?

It’s a bit how I feel too, plus the context is not the same. It’s not that I consider thin bodies as a negative body image either but thinness is so glorified all the time and everywhere so it’s not really a two-way road.

Ah thank you for the suggestion, this is what I might do if I’m ever asked to. I guess the most logical thing in this eventuality would be keeping “body image tw” as it is currently and tagging all pictures with worn items something random for people who need to avoid every body-types.

Anyway, I’d rather close this debate, I’m not sure getting anxious over a purely hypothetical issue is the best idea for me right now since I already have a lot to deal with.

Posted 13 hours ago1 note

@stephanievex : Yeah, but when I was asked to it was specifically thin bodies. I think it makes sense, since one might want to simultaneously avoid the sight of thin bodies not to get triggered and see curvy/fat bodies to gain confidence. Which is why I wouldn’t want to use the same tag if I was asked to. But I still don’t know what tag I should use then.

@lady-of-the-woodlands : I think this is what I’ll do for now!

Posted 14 hours ago4 notes

I’ve already heard about it, but I’m a bit unsure since :

  1. I’ve never been asked to so it would feel quite patronizing. There’s a difference between helping consenting people through their recovery and forcing it on them, if that makes sense???
  2. I don’t know if I should use “body image tw” as well or another tag, and in this latter case which should I choose?

What do you all think?

Posted 14 hours ago6 notes
tyrannyrobbers ASKED: as someone who is in recovery for an ED but still can be triggered by images of thin women, THANK YOU for tagging body image tw's. not many blogs do and it's nice that you are considerate enough to understand!

Thank you for your support!

It’s not even about being considerate, it’s just perfectly normal. As someone who has quite an unhealthy relationship with food and my body, I’ve learned to shut down my negative thoughts but I know it’s important to have safe places where you can put down your mental shields. Not many blogs use this tag at the moment but don’t hesitate to ask, good bloggers shouldn’t have a problem with this! 

Take care, beautiful <3

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